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Intimidation
Intimidating or harassing behaviour can take many forms: nasty remarks, threatening looks, notes left for you or other repeated behaviour that feels hostile. Often it isn’t a single incident but a pattern that keeps coming back. This can seriously affect how you feel at home, leaving you unsafe, tense, irritated or stressed, and less free in and around your own home.
Take the signs seriously: your own safety always comes first. In some cases it can help to get in touch at a calm moment and describe the situation clearly.
Start with what you notice
Mention a few specific moments, without blame.
Make one request
One realistic request works better than a list of frustrations.
Agree a follow-up
Check together after a week whether things have improved.
Seeking help with intimidation – Pack
€17.49
One editable document. Download first, pay within 14 days if it helps you.
Download now, pay later. Look through the document first and pay within 14 days if it is useful to you. You pay for the content: carefully worded, ready-to-use messages, guidance and a log. You may be dissatisfied if the document does not match its description or does not fit your situation. How your neighbour responds is outside anyone’s control, so the outcome with your neighbour is not covered by this.
✓ Pay only if the document is useful to you
✓ Already paid and not satisfied? Money back within 14 days
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General information, not personal legal advice or a guarantee that the problem will stop.
What you get
Five example messages: a first message in three lengths, a reminder and a final message
Optional passages for no response, no improvement or temporary improvement
Selection guide and instructions with a clickable table of contents
Background information and legal overview
Incident diary to keep track of the problem
Not quite right?
Prepare a conversation first · The problem keeps coming back · Personal help